Taking up space. This blog surrounds the topic of what does “Taking up space” mean? How can you apply it your life? And also acknowledging that it can mean something to one person and different another. SPACE the word itself will also be broken down and questioned through my perspective. This is my opinion and outlook on the topic so take what you will.

I wake up in the morning and wonder sometimes, wow! Where did the little girl who used to explore with vivid imagination and joy go or is she still with me? That if she saw me today, would she be happy with who I am now or think that adulting doesn’t seem very fun at all? I think she will find me pretty cool and beautiful in the way I treat others, speak, dream and carry myself. She and I are the same beings. However, I believe it is crucial to separate the ego of my past to provide room for change. However, it is because of the ego of my past that I fight for our hopes and dreams. It is because of “her” that I protect my body as a temple and still hold that joy and imagination. But it is valid to need space from “who” I thought I was to become whom I need to become.

That is where space comes into play. The word space is infinite and since it can be subjective it holds different meanings for people. I find that space is something expansive, open, unoccupied, and free it can be measured through time or measured through distance. It is one of those words that we use in our everyday lives but not always in a positive light. Space is the opposite of limitations, the need for space from people is necessary. I kind of imagine it is a “break” or a place of rest. Hence, why I think it is healthy to distance/space yourself from your past and be present with who you are now and allow space to be a place to explore and be courageous with your impulses. I have a whole blog about that called “The Ache” so check that out if you are interested in reading more about that idea.

Taking Up Space

Today’s topic is the saying “taking up space” one that is used quite often and has always resonated with me.

What does that mean? And how can I apply it in my life?

I understand that “taking up space” is acknowledging that you belong in any space and that every space you occupy you have a place in it. And depending on the way you carry yourself reflects the degree of space you occupy. This outlook on space is one where space is a place that others are also occupying and you the occupant are seeking acceptance and belonging in it. Understanding that space is shared and in a shared space it takes confidence big or small doesn’t matter to radiate within that space and make it your own. It’s power and the balance of power in certain social dynamics.

A similar notion of “taking up space” can be described as recognizing your right to exist. Your voice is valid, your right to have an opinion, to pursue your goals, to be yourself and not apologize for it. Both perspectives are similar yet the wording is different, I believe that my journey with “taking up space” has always been “be yourself” with compassion and strength and be cognizant of the spaces you want to occupy. In terms of reaching your goals, I believe there’s no space that I can’t make my own, that I can’t get a seat at the table, that I can’t be a part of and that realization has helped me make spaces for myself instead of asking for it or waiting for it. I want to emphasize that there is a time and place for taking up space when it comes to social/cultural relations to clarify and that you can be part of space by being a “listener” and “observer” as well. The focus does not always have to be on you is my point. Anyhow, I want to conclude by saying that “taking up space” is a privilege that we have so do not be afraid to shine and be unapologetically you!

Share with us what does “taking up space” mean to you ?